The Backlash
I really do not have much room in the condo......since I have refurbished it to accommodate my things......I do not like clutter as you know.
(There are empty closets throughout the condo)
Email 2 Subject: Mother’s Day From my mom to me This has nothing to do with yesterdays emails….and thank you for not calling last night.
I do not want to see you on Mothers Day…….I thought about it the best present is to leave me a day by myself. (She lives alone, everyday she is by herself)
I am supportive of your decision of your move to LA, however, do not expect me to keep your things in my home, or to bail you out. I want to live a life now that is selfish and do for myself………I have always put you before everything and everyone……now it is my turn to enjoy my life.
You are an ADULT even though you do want to be……make your decisions and be careful not to hurt others along the way, whether it is financially or their feelings.
As I said yesterday "Good Luck"
Mom
My response: Thank you for your support. I will make other arrangements for my winter clothes.
How does it feel?
I am amazed at the fact that you think $250 is nothing......this is your Father's attitude......him first and what he wanted and Fuck everyone else.....I have bills to pay....do you see me going on vacation.......I work very hard everyday......exhausted at the end of the day.......and still like a jerk was sympathetic to you and your issues.........I am supportive of your decision of moving to LA or where ever you want.......just do not expect me to be the money bags you think I am.
Mom-
You are being ridiculous! Calm down. I didn't go through every line of your email because I felt it was ridiculous. It does not mean I am self centered. Relax. I am not going into your emails line by line. There is no need. I see how you feel, and you have every right to feel any way you do. As am
I understand your concern for me, and my future. I need to try this. I need to be able to see what happens. I do not want to stay here, and wake up one day and regret not going. Right now, if I don't go I will regret it. I need to see what happens. I can hate it, and come home in 2 months. Who knows? At least I tried it.
I do feel money is money. I always think money can be made again, but experiences can only happen once. I want to live a life I will not regret.
I am coming home Mother's Day weekend, whether you like it or not! I will be home either Fri or Sat morning. I am making us appointments to get our nails done, and then we will go to dinner. Sunday we will go to breakfast. I will come back to the city Sunday, so you can have Mother's day to yourself, as you requested.
I hope you are able to see my side of this situation. I need to be my own person, and try something that I have been talking about since I was 8. If you do not fully support me, please do not rip me apart; don't share how I am going to fail. I need to do this, and can not bare to hear it’s the wrong. You have your own opinion.
I love you, and that will not change. You have to let me finally be my own person without guilt.
Pamela
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